This is our next meeting with MS.
I hate my family, they dont understand me, I hate my sister most. She doesnt want me in her house because she thinks I will spoil her children, bloody I will make my life and will prove that there can be a life beyond them--- MS was reading an sms the second devil had sent some months back.
MS had to mentor this kid, so he said, dont worry time is the best healer and lets work together. There are so many boys and girls who are in the team, you should stay committed to the work and as you say someday things will change. MS spent miles of hours in calming down the child, pacifying her anger level; using all his psychological learnings to groom her and create a different mind set so that she can leave the life with happiness.
Today MS also thinks in the same way, despite the girl abusing him up-front by citing her closeness to authority. MS said- why did I do this. I did d some seven months to change the mindset of this kid so that she will be positive, but some people never learn, God gives them a chance to chose between good and bad and they end of chosing bad only. Bad company, bad emotions, bad ideas and a mindset to abuse everyone.
My advice to MS- you have ent sufficient time in doing good for the child. If you have done good to the kid-never harm the kid. Since you are saying she is a brat and loses temper in between frequently, then let her cool down and realize that affections from elders are always one way traffic. Even if child does bad no parent will take revenge on the child, if you are treating the kid as part of your soul and family, continue doing it forever. Let the devil realize that world is not full of bad people, its also good people who wish good for her.
If she choses bad, its her decision; if you have ever affectionate to the person, cared to do something good to the person, continue doing it. Its emotion and affection which is under your control and you have no control over what other person thinks about you. If you care for the person, continue doing it and let time to prove whether doing good to someone is correct or doing bad is correct.
What I couldnt answer is " But to this devil, I have not done anything wrong, so why the kid in anger behaves like this?
I have no answer, do you have
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